Love without effort, live with no regrets

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Fri, 24 May 2013 10:46:46 -0400

Hmmmm

Fri, 24 May 2013 10:45:08 -0400

Hmmmm

Ballin

Fri, 24 May 2013 10:39:51 -0400

Ballin

Do you know what immmm thinkin

Fri, 24 May 2013 10:38:43 -0400

Do you know what immmm thinkin

I want one! (Im going manic?!)

Sat, 04 May 2013 19:23:50 -0400

Not my kitten! My friends kitten! Omg, so friggin cute!

My mood is changing. Im finding passion in things that I had forgotten about. Im drawing again, teaching my self how to water color. Even excerscising. This kitten made me realize how I really do have issues. I have this cat, it was my exboyfriends cat. And because I have no emotional attachement to this cat, and I really do mean, HATE the cat, I want to get rid of it. I need a pet that Im going to love and take care of!! My cat smokey died when he was 20 years old. He was the best cat in the world. He was my baby. He lived a very long happy life. And Ive never had a cat like him again. Of course no cat could ever come close to being Smokey. I got a cat out of the shelter a couple years ago, but he went astray. Then two years ago my exboyfriend asked me to take his cat because he was moving. I decided to because my other cat got lost.

No emotional connection.

When I think about connections, and how we react to things or how our persona is, Im amazed. Most things are as simple as , is there a connection?

I have been so depressed the past few years, that I literally have turned my body and my mind off. I dont know if its the tramadol or my anti depressent (paxil) that is finally working. Maybe the two are a miracle combination? Whatever it is, Im feeling great. Or mayyyyybe Im just really manic?

herpes dating/network tba

Fri, 03 May 2013 00:04:34 -0400

effortlesslylove

herpes network site tba

Hi everyone!

I am currently working on a dating site/network for people who have herpes!

It is going to be mostly out of Maine, but I am trying to keep it to New England at first. So if anyone is in Mass, NH areas, please msg me.

Its alot of work to build a website, so right now I am still working on everything, but when I have it all set, I need a few people in other states to post flyers, and hand out business cards to std clinics.

There will be a trial period for people to sign up for free, and use the service for free, while we get more people onto the site, but I need people who are willing to volunteer their time to get the word out.

If I can organize a “street team” in each state, these people will receive the service for free.

Im still trying to figure out names for the service….

any ideas?

Its strictly herpes

herpes network site tba

Thu, 02 May 2013 23:46:51 -0400

Hi everyone!

I am currently working on a dating site/network for people who have herpes!

It is going to be mostly out of Maine, but I am trying to keep it to New England at first. So if anyone is in Mass, NH areas, please msg me.

If I can organize a “street team” in each state, these people will receive the service for free.

Im still trying to figure out names for the service….

any ideas?

Its strictly herpes.

diagnosis code for herpes 054.1

Tue, 30 Apr 2013 20:23:03 -0400

2012 ICD-9-CM Diagnosis Code 054.1

Genital herpes

infection caused by herpes simplex virus type 2 (HSV-2) that is usually transmitted by sexual contact; marked by recurrent attacks of painful eruptions on the skin and mucous membranes of the genital area.
Herpes simplex infection on the genitals, most commonly caused by the herpes simplex-1 virus.
There are 5 ICD-9-CM codes below 054.1 that define this diagnosis in greater detail. Do not use this code on a reimbursement claim.
You are viewing the 2012 version of ICD-9-CM 054.1.
More recent version(s) of ICD-9-CM 054.1: 2013.

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Sun, 28 Apr 2013 23:52:12 -0400

would you like to be our partner?Run a std dating site yourself:) Contact at skype positivesingles if you do .

Sun, 28 Apr 2013 23:49:25 -0400

Hi I am already in the process of creating my own dating website for herpes. thank you.

Hi do u have an email ? I'd like to talk to you in a more appropriate way ? Thanks a lot xx

Sun, 28 Apr 2013 23:48:57 -0400

djs.mommy@live.com

Herpes dating website TBA

Sun, 28 Apr 2013 23:40:59 -0400

Okay folks, so who ever on this thing is from the “New England” states, I am developing a new dating website, just for herpes!!!

I need help with name ideas……

Anyone have any ideas? This website will incorporate education, forums, questions and answers, and of course the big thing! DATING!

For ideas so far I have:

HSVNewEngland

and socialstigma

Any other ideas?

Late nights "THE TALK"

Sun, 28 Apr 2013 00:40:25 -0400

I had slept all day because I worked 11-7 the night before, I woke up around midnight, and was afraid I had ditched him. Come to find out he got out of work at midnight, so he decided to come over with a bottle of wine and movie. He dressed in a button down shirt and kahkies and was even clean shaved. I was surprised at how well he cleans up!

We cuddeled and watched “Contagion” , he kept talking and asking me questions and I was getting annoyed. I also finally told him that I had herpes. I was afraid to because I really like him, and was afraid he would literally get up and walk away. He told me that his ex had herpes, and I talked with him about it for awhile, comparing my herpes to his cold sore.

He wrapped his arms around me tighter, and said ” You think Im going to leave? No”

mornings

Sun, 28 Apr 2013 00:36:38 -0400

We both have been working third shift, so we are trying to hang out whenever we can. Monday morning after breakfast, he came and hung out with me at my house for a little bit. And even came with me to meet my neice and her baby. I had to pick my son up, and I let him come with me, I just figured that if my son thinks he is a “friend” then thats okay. He doesnt know the difference! Dj didnt seemt to mind him.

breakfast

Sun, 28 Apr 2013 00:34:38 -0400

Monday we went out to breakfast at Roys steak house. It was really cute, and was more like a first date then anything, even though he wore the same shirt from the day before. He really listened to me, and I got to meet one of his brothers. He introduced me to everyone as soon as I met him. I felt like pretty woman.

dating with herpes

Sun, 28 Apr 2013 00:33:16 -0400

So I decided to go on the date. At first I was going to ditch him because my ex Kevin had me at his bekon call. He messed up this time. He told me to go on the date. Long story short I ended up working 3-11 anyways, but after efforts made with Kevin for the past year have fallen short, I decided to text the guy anyways.

He invited me over to drink beers with him at his house at 1 am. A little crazy, yes. Impulsive? Absolutley! I met him down town and knew I was taking a big risk just by meeting him, for all my luck he could be someone totally different off line. I picked him up and drove him back at his apartment where he had a couple of friends. He talked to me alot, and smiled. I finally decided to have a drink because he offered me a bed. After his friends left we listened to country music, and hung out. We fell asleep and cuddled until morning. When we woke up we hung out for a little bit, but I had a lot to do that day.

He was definitely interested from the start.

He is a single dad, and has an 8 year old daughter and is buying a house for them to move into. He has a decent job, but no drivers lisence. He lost it for OUI, And doesnt get it back until 2016!

Other then that he seems like a nice guy!

"its just herpes" facebook page!

Wed, 17 Apr 2013 22:30:44 -0400

https://www.facebook.com/ItsJustHerpes#!/ItsJustHerpes

Please like my page and lets get this conversation rolling!

this is whats up!

Wed, 17 Apr 2013 22:06:07 -0400

I apologize to anyone who has been following me, and I have stopped my herpes rants, and stories of my dating experiences! Im back!

I have been off the dating scene for a little while, and have been with my ex Kevin on and off for awhile now (well not on and off, just twisting sheets) if you get what I mean! Anyways! I was done dating and had given up, really didnt care to date and honestly thought that maybe he’d eventually figure out that he didnt want just sex, but a relationship again as well.

WRONG!

The dating begins again! I am going on a date this friday night! And no! I havnt told him about the herps!

I also wanted to let you guys all know that I am making a facebook page “Its just herpes”

https://www.facebook.com/#!/ItsJustHerpes?fref=ts For anyone daring to “like” this page!!!! =)

Stay tuned! More exciting stuff to happen soon!

Finally, together at last! I was taken away from my birth mother...

Tue, 29 Jan 2013 00:39:21 -0500

Finally, together at last!

I was taken away from my birth mother when I was 4 weeks old, and placed into foster care. I was a adopted when I was four years old, and was fortunte to only be placed into one foster home and then adopted. My sister Patty was taken away as well, and was placed with my biological grandmother. She is 13 months older then me. She was born January 12th 1985, and I was born November 5th 1986. I never knew I had a sister growing up until I was pregnant with my son, and went to DHS to get into my adoption records. It was then that I found out, at the age of 22, that I had a sister! I met my sister in April of 2011, and it was then that I found out that we also had a little brother out there somewhere! My brother found us on http://www.adopteeconnect.com , January 23rd we were finally together for the first time! I am so happy!

This is one of the best days of my life! My sister Patty, my brother Mark, Me, and all of our kids together as a family for the first time!!!!! I have a beautiful neice, and handsome nephew, and one more on the way!!!!

new facebook community "itsjustherpes"

Sat, 26 Jan 2013 11:59:27 -0500

Please like “itjustherpes”

I just came out on facebook and told EVERYONE I had it! Haha, no reactions yet!

I then decided to make my own community page! So please join!!!!!!!! =)

How many of you dare?!!!!